A negative imbalance is an emotion or feeling that you have created throughout life, due to trauma, circumstance, situation, experience, thought or belief.
These negative imbalances have not been properly processed. Meaning they have not left your body or energy field. You have been carrying them around since they were created or experienced.
These emotions may be how you have felt due to someone else action, words, beliefs and experiences.
For example: You may have experienced a parent telling you that you were Greedy or Selfish as a child. This may have been a one off experience or it may have been said over and over again. These words may have stuck with you for many years.
You may feel that deep down this is not fundamentally who you believe yourself to be, however it was told to you enough that you question how Greedy you may actually be.
So when an imbalance shows up in your healing, it may have been created by how you responded to someone else's words or behaviour. Spirit just wants you to no longer carry that burden...it's not actually for you.
There are 3 impressions of the main negative imbalance on each card. This allows for expansion on an imbalance. Another example on the card may resonate more than the original negative imbalance at the top of the card.
For example: Failure is the main negative imbalance on the card, with Defeated, Loss and Inadequate also displayed. If this card was pulled in your healing, you may resonate more with Inadequate than say, Failure.
FORGOTTEN, ERASED, LET DOWN
An act or instance of leaving a person or thing permanently and completely. Feeling let down, forgotten, unnecessary or rejected by someone or a situation.
MAD, OUTRAGE, FURY
Unrestrained or violent fury, rage, passion, or the like.
Feeling overcome with rage, wrath and anger that can linger and fester.
NERVOUSNESS, WORRY, DREAD
Tormenting oneself with or suffering from disturbing thoughts.
Feeling distressed, uneasy and nervous for the uncertainty in future outcomes.
DECEPTION, UNFAITHFULNESS, DISHONESTY
The act of disappointing a person’s trust, hopes or expectations.
Feeling cheated and unable to trust or believe in oneself and others.
MEAN, SPITEFUL, UNPLEASANT
Full of spite or malice; showing spite; malicious; malevolent; venomous.
Feeling venomous or nasty towards someone or a situation.Created by not letting go of past anger and hurt.
CRITICISE, JUDGEMENT, CONDEMN
To express an unfavourable or adverse judgment on; indicate strong disapproval of.
Feeling judged or judgemental towards others. Blaming others for your situation. Feeling criticised by others or being critical of yourself.
ARGUMENT, RIVALRY, COMPETITION
To come into collision or disagreement; be contradictory, at variance, or in opposition; clash.
Feeling in disagreement with someone or a situation. Being involved in verbal opposition or altercation. Resulting in feeling unheard. May even hold a grudge.
BEWILDERMENT, DISORIENTATED, TURMOIL
A state of great commotion, confusion, or disturbance; tumult; agitation.
Feeling ungrounded, disorientated and bewildered by conversation, others or a situation.
STAGNANT, STUCK, PROCRASTINATION
Struggling to bring something new into being.
Feeling stuck or judged whilst using your creativity. Causing stagnation and procrastination. Feeling unappreciated for your input or work.
OPPOSING, GUARDED, RESISTING
Withstanding, fighting or acting against something or someone.
Feeling opposed or resisting a person or situation. Feeling unheard.
GLOOM, MISERY, UNHAPPINESS
To lose, give up, or be without hope.
Feeling a deep, unwavering, negative outlook towards a person or situation. Always having a gloomy perspective.
NEEDY, CLINGING, WANTING
Excessive desire, need or outcome.
Feeling out of balance with an intense need or want. Holding on so tight to the desired outcome that you may create obsessive behaviours or intense overwhelm or worry. Not trusting the process. A need to control the outcome.
LOSS OF CONFIDENCE, DISAPPOINTMENT, DOWNHEARTEDNESS
Deprived of or lacking in courage, hope, or confidence.
Feeling like a failure. Loss or confidence and courage making it hard to move forward or think positively.
DISLIKE, HATRED, LOATHING
Intense dislike or extreme aversion or hostility.
Feeling repulsed or disgusted by ones actions, words or intentions.
DEFEATED, LOSS, INADEQUATE
An act or instance of failing or proving unsuccessful; lack of success.
Feeling insufficient and not good enough. Feeling unsuitable and defeated.
SCARED, ALARMED, APPREHENSION
A distressing emotion aroused by impending danger, evil, pain.
Feeling anticipation of adversity or misfortune. Feeling scared or alarmed about past experiences and future outcomes.
EMPTY, DOWN, LOW
A period of intense depression or discomfort.
Feeling devoid of joy, happiness and contentment. Lack of hope and positivity.
ANNOYANCE, GRIEVANCE, DISSATISFACTION
The state or attitude of not being satisfied; discontent; displeasure.
Feeling annoyed, irritated and frustrated towards a person or situation. Having a grievance with an outcome.
MOURNING, AGONY, ANGUISH
Intense physical or mental suffering or distress over affliction or loss; sharp sorrow; painful regret.
Feeling prolonged pain after a loss of a loved one. Grieving the loss of an expectation or situation.
REGRET, REMORSE, SELF-CONDEMNATION
A feeling of sorrow or remorse for a fault, act, loss, disappointment.
Feeling at fault for a situation. Choosing to believe you are fundamentally wrong.
POWERLESS, DESPONDENT, UNABLE
Deprived of strength or power; powerless; incapacitated.
Feeling powerless in a conversation or situation. Feeling like you are unable to change your current predicament. Devoid of purpose.
IMPOSSIBLE, DESTITUTE, IRREPAREABLE
Providing no hope; beyond optimism; without means of existing.
Feeling like the world is stacked up against you - there is no way out. Feeling backed up into a corner. Feeling worthless.
HESITANCY, DAWDLING, DOUBT
Not decisive or conclusive; lacking readiness; undecided and doubtful.
Feeling doubtful and hesitant about a person or situation. Struggling to make a decision or choosing wisely.
SELF-DOUBT, LACK OF CONFIDENCE, SHY
Lack of confidence or assurance; self-doubt.
Feeling shy and unsure or your circumstances, choices and thoughts. Feeling inadequate and lacking confidence in yourself and your actions.
ENVIOUS, POSSESIVE, RESENTFUL
Mental uneasiness from suspicion or fear of rivalry; resentment against another's success.
Feeling envious towards someone else's success. Feeling jealous and resentful.
UNMANAGEABLE, REBELLIOUS, UNCOMFORTABLE
Lack of restraint or direction; removal of control over a situation, event or outcome.
Feeling inclined to rebel due to not being able to control a situation or person. Feeling uncomfortable in your current circumstances.
CRAVING, YEARNING, EAGAR
Strong, persistent desire or craving, especially for something unattainable or distant.
Feeling the a strong yearning for the arrival or completion of a desire - a person, outcome, situation or material object.
INVISIBLE, MISPLACED, OFF-COURSE
To be distracted, distraught, desperate and hopeless.
Feeling invisible to others. Not quite knowing your purpose and direction in life. Feeling off-course and misplaced.
COMPARISON, SELF-JUDGEMENT, NEGATIVITY
Lack of realistic respect for or favourable impression of oneself; lack of self-respect.
Feeling negative towards yourself. Allowing self-judgement and comparison to direct your thoughts and actions. Not feeling good enough.
OVERCOME, INUNDATED, STRESS
To overcome completely in mind or feeling; inundated by a great volume of emotion.
Feeling stressed and overcome with angst, concern and worry. Feeling overpowered by your circumstances. Allowing yourself to constantly be overcome by stress.
FRENZY, TERROR, HORROR
Sudden overwhelming fear, with or without cause, that produces hysterical or irrational behaviour.
Feeling intense fear or anxiety due to thoughts, actions, experiences and situations. Not being in control of a situation. Feeling terrified of an outcome. A spike in adrenaline.
ANNOYED, UPSET, IRRITATED
To be angered, annoyed or provoked.
Feeling upset or irritated by someone's actions, words or beliefs. Feeling annoyed by circumstances out of your control.
LOVE-UNRECEIVED, EFFORT-UNRECEIVED, DENIED
To be refused or not granted; denied.
Feeling rejected after making yourself vulnerable. Putting yourself out there, only to be denied by someone. Having your love and effort unreceived. Denied love.
DISPLEASURE, GRUDGE, OUTRAGE
Strong displeasure to something or someone considered unjust, offensive, insulting.
Feeling disgusted by someone's actions or words. Holding a grudge and feeling outraged.
SORROW, HEARTACHE, SUFFERING
Distress caused by loss, affliction, disappointment; heartache.
Feeling heartbroken over a person or situation. Suffering in sadness. Being unable to feel joy and happiness.
REPULSION, DETESTABLE, SELF-JUDGEMENT
Disgust with oneself; the feeling that one is detestable.
Feeling a repulsion towards yourself. Detesting you own actions, words and thoughts. Judging yourself and your circumstances. Feeling unloved and unworthy.
HUMILIATION, EMBARRASSMENT, DISHONOUR
The painful feeling arising from the consciousness of something dishonourable, improper, ridiculous, done by oneself or another.
Feeling humiliated or embarrassed by a person or circumstance. Feeling inadequate. Having thoughts that you should have been better.
TRAUMA, DISTRESS, DISTURBANCE
A sudden or violent disturbance of the mind, emotions, or sensibilities.
Feeling traumatised and distressed by an event, person, conversation or situation.
INFLEXIBILITY, PIGHEADEDNESS, UNWAVERING
Fixed or set in purpose or opinion; resolute.
Feeling resolute about a topic, situation or event. Struggling to understand any other perspective. Unwillingness to change your stance on a belief, thought or outcome.
UNGRATEFUL, TAKEN FOR GRANTED, THOUGHTLESS
Not given or shown thanks or gratitude.
Feeling that you have been taken for granted. Feeling unnoticed, unseen and unheard. Not feeling valued for who you are and what you do.
ALONE, UNASSISTED, UNAIDED
Not supported physically, financially, or emotionally.
Feeling that you are alone in the world. Feeling that you are unassisted in life. Struggling to feel supported.
INAPPROPRIATE, UNSUITABLE, UNDESERVING
Not worthy; lacking worth or excellence.
Feeling devoid of acknowledgement, worthiness and purpose. Not feeling that you are deserving of the good things in life.
DEFENSELESS, EXPOSED, UNSAFE
Willingness to show emotion or to allow one’s weaknesses to be seen or known; willingness to risk being emotionally hurt.
Feeling exposed on an emotional level. Feeling unsafe to express you true feelings, intentions or beliefs.
POINTLESS, USELESS, INSIGNIFICANT
Without worth; of no use, importance, or value; good-for-nothing.
Feeling useless and insignificant. Feeling that you are not important.